RELEGION I UNDERSTAND, FEELINGS I FEEL

Homo-sapiens, commonly known as human beings are the strangest kind of living creatures. And what makes them different from all the other living creatures is that they can think and feel, and they think and feel a lot, but most of the times they think about and feel the things which they should not think or feel. Things which give them tensions make them worry or make them feel guilty. The biggest problem with human beings is that they are emotional, emotions are enemies of one’s will to exist, and sometimes they are strength to survive.
Most of the times human beings don’t want to do things that others want them to do, and when they do those things, others step back. They first will make you believe in something, and when you’ll start believing in that thing, they will stop believing in that. I am not a religious person, but I am spiritual in my own way, I like every place where I find peace, I may find peace in a church, or some Gurudwara, or any temple, or any mosque, or in my room, or some beautiful place, or on a lonely bus stand, or early morning at Kharghar station parking, any place where my soul gets peace is sacred to me.

“RELEGION CAN NEVER REFORM MANKIND
BECAUSE RELEGION IS SLAVERY”
-ROBERT G. INGERSOLL
1833-1899

It supports blind submission to the authority, it reduces human responsibility to the effect that GOD controls everything, and in turn all the awful crimes are justified in the name of Devine Pursuit, and most importantly it empowers those who know the truth to use the myth to manipulate and control the society. I believe in only one religion and that is HUMANITY. And I strongly believe that every human being should follow that because that is the only thing which makes us different from animals. I remember a song of one of my favorite rock band i.e. Nickel Back the song goes like-
If everyone cared nobody cried,
If everyone loved then nobody lied,
If everyone shared smaller the pride,
Then we see the day, when nobody died.

I love the song and strongly believe in the words. As far as I know, every religion teaches us the same thing, they teach us to maintain peace, they want us to follow the same path of righteousness, and as far as I know, every religion ends at heaven or hell, everyone doing good deeds will go to heaven and every sinner will go to hell. I do not know whether heaven or hell exist or not, but I believe that every crime you commit, you will be punished, either by law or by guilt. Therefore I believe in doing well to others and enjoying my life too, because if you are not enjoying every second of your life, you are living in a hell.
Never think about what you lost, think about what you gained. Think about what is ahead in life. Forgive and forget every person who has ever hurt you. Because he will suffer, for his sins and that’s sure. I just want to say that you should never feel sorry for what happened with you, but for what wrong you did, and try not to repeat the same mistake again. You cannot undo what has happened, but you can start now to change your future. If you are optimist, then only you can remain happy. Always remember, everything happens for a reason. And everything that happens to you will make your life better than before in some way or another. Every experience, good or bad leaves for us a lot to learn. And you will learn the most from your worst experiences in life. That’s why tragedies happen, to make us realize what wrong we did.
Feelings are important part of human beings, but the worst feeling any human can get is the feeling of guilt. Guilt is something that will not let you live in peace. So try not to hurt anyone, for anything, for any reason, even if you hate him the most on the face of earth. And if you are hurt by someone, I am telling you something, something very important, the MANTRA using which no one ever will be able to hurt you ever. And this MANTRA is- ‘NEVER EXPECT ANYTHING FROM OTHERS, TRY TO DO EVERYTHING ON YOUR OWN, BECAUSE WHEN THEY DO NOT FULFILL YOUR EXPECTATIONS, YOU GET HURT’. I never expect anything from anyone, I never expect anyone will do my work for me, I never expect that someone will love me either. Because when you get something unexpectedly you became the happiest person. You get something you needed, but you never asked for it, you just earned it, and the satisfaction of earning something is the best feeling any human being can ever get. And if someone refuses to do you a favor, you don’t get hurt, because you never had expectations from that person. I proposed to a girl and she refused, but still I was not hurt, because I never expected that she will love me back, all I wanted was her to know my feelings towards her. And if she would have said yes, I would have been on cloud 9, the happiest man alive. I have been a student of business administration, and we are taught to minimize our loss. And I try to minimize my loss in every aspect of life. And that’s the key to live happily, minimize hate, and maximize love and peace.