How To Teach A Rapist And More.

Okay before telling you all that what can be the perfect cure for rapists, I want to express few things.

First of all, I feel pity on states other than Delhi. They call Delhi the Rape Capital or Rape City. they highlight each and every case in Delhi, it is a good thing, this is what media is supposed to do, this is what people should do, show their rage against such crime, not a bad thing. But what I see is that for people and media only Delhi is important now, I have been reading a lot of small news, well small news about rapes outside Delhi, small news because nobody gave a FUCK about them (pardon my language). Are rapists in Punjab or Haryana or Mumbai or Tamil-Nadu less guilty than Rapists in Delhi? I feel pity on those victims who weren't heard, who weren't cared about because they weren't raped in Delhi.

Now everybody is asking for capital punishment, I am not, I am against capital punishment. Sorry people but I actually don't want those rapists to be hanged or killed. For the crime they have done, DEATH is not ENOUGH. If you'll kill them people will forget about them in few days. Also there is capital punishment for Murders, still people kill, therefore I seriously think that no strict law can ever stop this crime.

IF NOT CAPITAL PUNISHMENT THEN WHAT???

Well there is a process called CASTRATION( To remove the testicles of (a male); geld or emasculate.)
Well I am very much in favor of this punishment. I want all these rapists to be CASTRATED and left alive, with RAPIST tattoed on their foreheads for the rest of their lives. I don't want them to die, death is not enough, they should live in the society, they should feel the humiliation, they should feel the pain, they should suffer for the rest of their life. They should be begging for death but they shouldn't die. When they will suffer every second of the rest of their life, they will become an example for the society. That may help in controlling this crime. But this cant be stopped like this.

Everyone blames Rapists, call them sick and wish they were dead, But no one thinks about why he did that. Most morons will say that the girls wear revealing clothes and provoke men to do such crimes, and I wish these morons burn in hell too. We live in a country where we all are the players of 'Blame Game'. People blame society, society blame Government and so on. But who is actually to be blamed?

Don't blame anyone, blaming never changed anything, working did and let me tell you, to change things, to end these things, it will take years and maybe generations. People should learn to respect women. It has been happening from last many generations where girls are unwanted, girls are supposed to be a liability. She is taught that she has to first serve her father, then her husband, that she cannot do a lot of things because she is weak, because a MAN is SUPERIOR to her. On the other hand, a boy is the one who will carry forward the Name of his father. A boy is given all the freedom, he is given everything, and that boy notices everything, that how his mother and sister is supposed to be following his father. These things motivate the boys to take advantage of things, little things, and slowly and gradually someday they become so proud that they become evil. Only a little trigger, maybe drugs, maybe alcohol and maybe to prove their 'Mardanagi' they will do anything, they'll rape , they'll beat they'll even kill women.

Now whom will you blame??? Delhi??? Men??? Police??? Government??? Women??? or System???

I know you will blame someone, because we are Indians we blame things we dont change things.

Rape Me...

I live in a city which is called the Rape Capital of the country. In-fact it is the capital of India. Ten rape cases in last one month, its a shame. And yesterday, saw the news that a 17 year old girl is gang-raped by 5 boys from same locality in Noida. The girl was a minor and was willingly drinking Vodka in birthday celebration of one of the convicts. Even more shocking news was this that the victim claims that she was raped earlier also by the same boy last year. Last year in Mumbai there was a case when a girl was continuously raped by her own father for years because some Tantrik told him that by doing so he will earn heavy profits in business, she went to police when her father tried to rape her younger sister too. Now in both of these cases there is one similarity, in both the cases victim didn't complained at first, which in turn encouraged the rapist to commit the crime again.

If we look at the stats, India stands third, in World when it comes to rape cases. Ahead of India are only the United States and South Africa. According to the data, 18,359 rape cases were registered in India in the first three quarters of this year while in the US, 93,934 and in South Africa 54,926 rape cases were registered respectively. total 44,159 cases of different sex offenses were registered across India in the said period.


Now all this makes me sad. Everyone knows that there is something wrong, but what is wrong? People in other states and cities call Delhi the capital of Rape, but does that makes their city rape-free? Everyone plays the blame-game. We all know that this crime is not normal, rape is not only a physical crime, it is sexual, psychological and social crime. Victim goes in depression and sometimes never recovers. Also victim is mostly afraid of going to police, or face the society. And our society, It punishes the victim more than the rapist. Women will blame men for this kind of crime and they should be blamed. It is our society which teaches us that women are man's property, that man is superior to women, that a man is not man enough if he cannot control his women. Law states that men and women are equal, but law of society are different. A girl child is killed before she is born, if not then she lives a life under the thumb of his father. She is taught that she will always need a 'man' to protect her, and later a 'man' rapes her or beats her or molests her. Still she wont raise her voice against her husband or father or brother or any man, because if she will, then how will she survive in this society?

I just wanna tell all the women that they are equal to men. Men are in no ways superior to them. Also women should know their rights, because she may be physically not as strong as a man but she has got more rights than a man. Ladies, there are few twisted freaks out there, but you have your rigts and you are not alone, just make sure you don't do anything which gives them any chance to harm you, like that minor girl was consuming alcohol with 5 drunk boys. The day all you women will realize that you are not weak, no man will dare touch you.

It Never Ended For Me... (Part-II)

Guys, as you all know how I met the girl of my dreams, she came like a fragrance in my life. Suddenly everything had turned so beautiful and I was on cloud 9. When she told me that she loves me too, that moment was magical...

"...Do you know, that girl felt the same for you too, she wanted to stay there in that moment with you forever..."

These words had an irreversible effect on my mind, I was so excited that I couldn't sleep that whole night. I was just waiting for the sun to rise. Next morning when I woke up... ohh sorry I was already awake and when I heard the chirping of birds I jumped out of my bed, washed my face, and for the first time in my whole life, I went for jogging so early. The fact is this, that I was Jogging towards her home, hoping that I could get a glimpse of her to make my 'day' a 'perfect day'. I waited but only glimpse I could get was of their gardener.

After that day, we both used to talk a lot on phone, whenever we got a chance. When her parents were away she use to call me and when mine were away I used to call her. We used to meet at a nearby coffee-shop, sometimes in parks. She was new in town so I introduced her to my friends. All my friends liked her too, and I was feeling proud of myself that I've got this girl with me. I was also the only person in my whole group who had a girlfriend, who inspired everyone to get a girl for themselves too.

Once we planned a trip out with friends to a nearby picnic spot 'Johing'. We were 8 friends on 4 Bajaj scooters that we had borrowed from our parents and as she was my girl she was sitting behind me. We were 5 guys and 3 girls, and we all were falling in love.  On the way she was sitting behind me, holding me and I felt like I was in heaven, she was almost hugging me from behind, I could feel her fingers on my chest. On the way she said she wants to ride it and wanted me to sit behind her, I was afraid at first but she was good at it. It was a beautiful day, bit cloudy and the sunlight coming through clouds and I was sitting behind her with my hand around her stomach. The wind was playing with hair and they were disturbing her eyes, so I removed them from her forehead using my fingers. All the way I was looking at her face in the rear view mirror and she looked more beautiful with every second that passed by.

Around 11am we reached there, and the view was just AWESOME by the riverside and the fishermen on their boats were making the scenery which I saw in paintings during childhood. We found a nice place so that we can have our lunch. We all friends were sitting together, chatting took some snaps from our old kodak camera. After that, we started having lunch while listening to music, she ate from my hand and I from her. After having some rest she asked me if we can go for a walk and smiled. So we left our friends there and went on towards the river. As there were clouds so the weather was pretty good and cool breeze from the river was making the moment even more romantic. We were walking on the shore,holding hands, silently and were listening to the sweet ambiance created by the river and wind.

Suddenly the silence vanished and she asked me "Have you ever kissed anyone?". I was feeling a bit nervous and shy, then I pretended like I've not heard her, and asked "what?". "Nothing" she replied, then I said "no one except my mother and sister". She smiled at my reply and said "oh no, then you must be a terrible kisser", to which I replied "How can you be so sure about it? My mother says I've got softest lips in my family". After a pause she said "Every mother says that, I don't believe you" and I replied "Why don't you check out for yourself then? maybe that will clear your doubts" to which she said "yes maybe I should do that" and I moved towards her, my hands wrapped around her waist I looked into her eyes, she closed her eyes. I could feel her warm breath on my lips, she lifted her chin and I came closer. The time froze and my lips touched her soft and tender lips. We hugged each other so tight that even air couldn't pass through. I felt like staying in that moment forever, till eternity, I felt like absorbing her in myself and forget about everything else.

After that day every day was most beautiful day of my life. I was in heaven with an angel, everything was going on so good that we didn't even realized that our holidays have came to an end and it was time for me to go back to my hostel and she had to go to her grandparent's home for studies. I was sad, the days were over, and we were falling apart and when I was packing my bag, she called me. She said "we wont be able to meet now" and started crying, even I felt so sad but I tried to console her "we'll meet again, don't worry, I'll call you, give me your grandma's number" she knew that in my hostel mobile phones were not allowed and so I wont be able to call her, but I promised her that I'll arrange something and she should not worry. She gave me her number and said that she'll wait for my call.

In my hostel, the rules were very strict. We weren't allowed to keep any mobile phones and the warden used to check our rooms every now and then, so it was not possible for me to keep a mobile phone. Some of the seniors had kept mobile phones hidden with them, but I couldn't ask them as they were the seniors, I was sad as I couldn't keep my promise. Then came my friend as a rescue ranger with a mobile phone as he also had a girlfriend. He had solved my problem, all I had to do was to recharge his phone and he would allow me to call her. We used to hide the phone and as there was a risk that warden may come anytime so we used to go to the bathroom to call and our bathroom became our call booth.

First two days when I called her home, her granny had picked up the phone so I hung up. But third day she answered and I heard her voice after more than 2 weeks. Believe me friends, it was a very emotional moment, I couldn't say even 'hello' for a minute but she understood it was me and said "I thought you forgot me". "How can I?" I said and I told her how much I missed her and she told me how much she loves me.

After that we talked almost every afternoon and one day she told me that its difficult for her to talk on land-line so she'll get a mobile phone for herself soon and said me she will inform me somehow but till then she told me not call on the land-line number, I said "okay but please inform me soon." After that again we stopped talking for some days and one day I got a call from home and I had to go downstairs to take my call. I talked with my mom and dad and asked about my cruel sister, she took the phone, she asked how I was and asked about how my relationship was going, I asked "WHY?". She said that her dumb brother doesn't even know his girlfriend's number, how could a girl even fall for him. Before I could say anything to her she said note down her number and suddenly my cruel sister became an angel for me. But there was one more problem for me how could I note down the number as my warden was sitting in front of me so I asked her to tell me the number and I would remember it by heart somehow and after hearing the number I hung up the call and as soon as I went out of the sight of my warden I started cramming the number  "8826737736" till I reached my room on the fourth floor and noted down the number as soon as possible. Damn! friends I can't tell you what kind of relief I felt at that time.

Everything was going well between us, we were able to carry this long distance relationship very well. We used to talk on phone almost everyday, but then it was time for exams. My college started giving extra classes, so it was becoming difficult for me to talk, her exams were also near so we weren't getting enough time to talk. And to make things worse all the mobile phones in hostel were caught by the warden, just before her birthday. I was helpless, I tried almost everything but couldn't wish her. I called her after three days, when I got chance to go to city. She was very angry, she said I was ignoring her, which wasn't true. I tried to explain everything, but she didn't listen, she hung up. I tried to call her after that a lot, but she always hung up after knowing that it was me. I knew she was hurt, but I was helpless, I tried everything which I could but she wasn't ready to talk. After few days my sister called me "What kind of boyfriend are you? your girlfriend is not keeping well and you aren't even bothered to call her?" I was shocked to know about her condition, I told my sis about everything. Sis said that she will inform her about my problems.

After two weeks my exams were over and I was back home.All I could think was that I had to solve this problem as I knew that she loves me as much as I love her. I was unpacking my stuff , just then the phone rang and I picked up the phone and heard the sweetest 'HELLO' again. I said i was just going to call you and explain everything and she said that she knows everything as my sis had explained my situation to her. I said so we are back together , she said "not yet, I haven't got my birthday present yet, if I'll like it then only I'll be with you." I was on cloud nine, we decided to meet at her favorite coffee shop in the evening as she was also back home after her exams.

I shaved, I did everything, I wanted to look my best and applied my father's imported perfume and rushed to my aunt's pet shop and bought a aquarium with two little cute goldfish as i knew she always wanted them. I reached the coffee shop one hour early and waited for her outside the coffee shop as I didn't wanted to be late. After sometime I saw her on the other side of the road, she was looking so lovely in her white dress as if I was looking at an angel from heaven. She was smiling at me and crossing the road. She was coming towards me and suddenly a car came from nowhere and she met with a severe accident.

Today two years have gone by, I am still sitting beside her bed in a hope that she will someday wake up from bed. This year my graduation has been completed but in every vacations I come here to be with her, to take care of her. Even the nurses here knows me well, they take care of her as well as the fishes in the aquarium but I still don't know if she likes her present or not, I hope she likes them. Sometimes the nurses and my friends ask me to move on as there is very less chance that she will be out of her coma as she has hematoma in the brain  but I smile at them and tell them that its my love and hope that is keeping her alive.

So, this was my unfinished story.... but I hope that my story will get a happy ending.

It Never Ended For Me...

In my life, I came across a lot of things. And everything had a beginning and an end. But this thing hasn't ended yet and m still stuck in those memories. Maybe I don't want it to end, this unfinished part of my story has an open end and it will remain the same... maybe forever.

My exams were over, and this summer was so bad to all the human beings that I couldn't take it, so I came back home. After six months I was back home and everyone surrounded me for all the tales of glory that I'll be telling them, as if I've came from some big voyage or war, it was just my first time when I lived in a hostel. All my cousins from neighborhood surrounded me and asked me stupid questions about ragging and other things, of-course I wasn't going to tell them all that. After everyone was over with meeting me, they left for their home, and I got some peace. I wanted to spend time with my home, my small pond which was my favorite spot and all those ducks in that pond. It made me feel alive, energetic and peaceful at the same time. I've always loved and admired the nature, its beauty and felt like writing poems like William Wordsworth praising its beauty.

I was home for 2 months, and after few days of staying at home, I was really tired of not having any work to do, so I was kind of getting bored, but then something happened which made those holidays the most memorable period of my life. A very close friend of my dad had shifted to our town, so they were invited to our house for dinner. I was not very excited to meet them but when they came I realized that I was making a huge mistake because they came with an angel. When I saw her, I went in state of shock or maybe I was amazed but yeah she was like the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. She was sitting there, looking at me, smiling, while I was noticing her beauty, her beautiful big twinkling eyes. I said 'Hi' to her and she replied with the sweetest 'Hello' in the world, her voice was so smooth, so soft and so magical that I was already so much attracted towards her. I couldn't sleep that night, I mean it took me more than 3 hours to fall asleep that night because as I closed my eyes her smiling face came in front of my eyes, her beautiful eyes were haunting me.
I told my sister about this, but she didn't take it seriously, but yeah she never missed any chance to tease me. Once while my parents were going to meet someone, I made an excuse to stay at home. My parents wanted me to go but I wasn't ready to go anywhere because all I wanted was to remember her alone sitting beside my pond with some romantic music. Suddenly my cruel sister came to me and said "I cant believe you don't wanna meet her" and I almost got a minor heart attack. I ran towards my room and within split-seconds I was ready and rushed to mom and said "its okay, I'll go if you insist, anyways their is nothing left to eat in fridge so I hope they'll serve good food at least" my mom was surprised at my strange behavior, but it was worth it, I got to see her and every time I saw her, I felt those butterflies in my stomach. From that day I made a promise to myself, I will never, never ever miss any chance to see her.

Then came a day, when our families and friends decided to go for a trip to a nearby hill-station Zero. We had booked a mini-bus to visit that place. We were around 15-20 guys and I was lucky enough to get the last seat of the bus beside her. She was sitting near window and cool breeze was playing with her hair. I could not take my eyes off her, even for a second, she smelled great, her hair smelled great and everything about her was so aesthetic that I was lost. I came back to my senses with her mesmerizing voice she asked me to pass her the water-bottle. I was loving each and every moment, she was sitting beside me and we were surrounded by all the beautiful mountains, valleys and rivers. We were talking about movies, music and other things and I was listening to her and man I loved her voice. I told her she should try singing, she laughed it off. As we were moving forward, we came closer, as friends. We saw a hanging bridge, made of ropes and wooden planks, we stopped the bus, we came down and were crossing it, it was beautiful, the river, the valley and the mountain. The sun was setting down, we could see it going down the horizon and everything was shining in its red sunshine, I looked at her, she was smiling, I can never forget that moment.

We reached there, it was already late, we had dinner together and then we all went to sleep. For the first time in life I wanted to wake up early, even in my board exams I never thought of waking up so early but this was different. Next morning I woke up early, with a cup of coffee went to balcony, I could see her from my balcony, she was there in the garden with all messed up hair and rays of early morning sun were kissing her cheeks. She was looking the most beautiful flower in the garden.

That day all the elders had to go out to meet a family friend so we all were left at guesthouse, mostly children. Only person who was around my age was her, and one elder cousin who was taking care of all the children. I thought of taking a walk outside. As I started walking outside, a voice stopped me "Hey where are you going alone?", I turned behind and she was standing there. "Going out for a walk, wanna join?" I said, she told me that there was a beautiful lake behind the guesthouse which she had seen from her room, she wanted to go there. We both came out and headed towards that lake. On the way we saw a beautiful hut on a hill, surrounded by orchids, we decided to go there. As we were climbing that hill, for the first time I held her hand, her skin was as soft as cotton. when we reached there we saw nature from closest, all the green trees, the birds and cool breeze. Then we went to the lake, we sat there, watching the Sun sinking in the water. I asked her interests, she liked books, poems, music and my favorite William Wordsworth. She asked me if I had a girlfriend, I blushed and said 'Naah'. She smiled and said 'Okay' I asked her 'what about You?' she said 'my girlfriend? naah m not that type' and laughed, I smiled too.

While returning to guesthouse we were holding hands, maybe because it was cold but I'll ignore that fact to feel good, I was at top of the world. After Dinner we had to return back home, so this time I didn't took any chance and grabbed the last seat beside her. She had her Walkman and was listening to Bryan Adams. When she saw me, she took one end of the earphone and put it in my ear and smiled. It was playing...
...Look into my eyes, you will see
What you mean to me
Search your heart, search your soul
And when you find me there you'll search no more...

After four hours when we reached home she was sleeping, resting her head on my shoulder. I hated it but I woke her up. I was feeling sad, all these sweet moments were over, and I was afraid that this could be end, but while I was unloading the luggage she came to me and handed me a piece of paper, smiled and went back. My heart was besting fast, In my whole life I had never experienced something like that. I was afraid as well as excited to read that note, I opened it...

'Text me on my mom's number tonight after 10'

That night, after 10 I was in my bed, with my dad's cell which I had stolen from his room, phew that was a tough task, I had to make proper strategy to do that, cause if he'd find out I was out of the house. Now I was afraid that what if she was not having her mom's phone, so at first I sent her a blank text, and waited for reply. To my surprise I got a reply within a minute, we started chatting. We kept chatting for whole night, about different things, we shared jokes, poems, our hostel experiences, I told her about my ragging in hostel but she didn't. This went on for a week, every night we'll steal our parent's mobile phones and chat on texts.

Then came the night when my heart and emotions overcame my mind and sanity. It was raining outside, the raindrops were creating the most romantic music on our tin roof. I was enjoying the moment and suddenly the text came

She- Its raining :)
Me- I was going to text u the same :)
She- I love rains <3
Me- Me too, everything about rains, the sweet smell of soil when it rains, the sound of raindrops on our tin roofs, everything :)
She- And sound that frogs make? :P
Me- lol that too :P ... ... ... Its romantic
She- hmmmm... Are you missing someone?
Me- Yeah... missing someone a lot
She- who?
Me- Shez the one I love.
She- But you said you're single :o
Me- Well yes I am, She dont have any Idea about how much I love her.
She- can I meet her?
Me- hmmm... yes... but I dont know what your reaction will be when you'll see her.
She- I'll be happy ofcourse
Me- How can you be so sure?
She- You can try... please tell me whoz she, I wanna see her. Where did u meet her?
Me- Hmm well she was with me few days back, we sat beside a lake and watched sunset together... at that time I fell in love with her...But I dont know what she felt :(

After that text I waited for her reply. And about half an hour passed by and no reply came, and I felt asleep. At around 3 or 4 I woke up, and I was shocked at my carelessness, How could I sleep in this critical situation, I just proposed a girl and I felt asleep even without knowing the answer. Then I took the mobile, there was one unread message. My heartbeats increased, I was afraid to open that text, my hands were shivering and I felt so nervous for the first time. I pressed the green key on the phone, opened the text and phew It was a yes, the reply was...

"...Do you know, that girl felt the same for you too, she wanted to stay there in that moment with you forever..."

So finally this was official that I was in relationship with a girl, but this was only half of it, I'll tell you second half of my story in next blog...

To Be Continued...

A Little True Story Of Boy Meets Girl

This is a story of a HE meets SHE...
A typical story, something no one even noticed, not a fairytale kinda love story, but just a simple story of Boy meets Girl.

He was not just a regular guy who is in his early twenties. When most of the guys were out celebrating Valentine's Day with their girlfriends this kinda loner, kinda boring, mostly was spending time on Internet. He was not sad but wasn't happy either. His social life mostly was actually social networking life, living in his 1RK flat alone, smoking away days like his Cigarette and drinking away like Rum. All He wanted was to get someone in his life who can kiss his loneliness away like the winters were going. His favorite pass-time was his online radio where He would play songs online on request from his fans. This was something He was proud of, around 7000 fans on his online radio and all knew him but He knew no one. Little did He knew that one of those fans will change his life forever because She was one of them.

She was very happy girl, She always stayed happy, She knew how to stay happy and make others happy. She loved loving. She loved everything, She loved the Sun, the Stars, the Moon, the Flowers, the Children, the Birds, the City, the Jungle, the Rains everything, even the Frogs which pop out when it rains. She loved music and while studying She would listen to his online radio. She was single so She never dedicated any song to anyone, so She had never talked to Him She didn't knew Him, He was just a guy who plays songs on radio. The only reason She listened to this radio was that the songs were of her choice without even choosing. She liked all the songs He played, if she was happy it played happy songs, if She was sleeping it played soothing songs, if She was sad... wait She was never sad, She was a happy girl.

But one day, it was different, She was happy but the radio played sad songs, She didn't liked it, so She decided to post a request on radio station to play some happy songs, but it didn't changed anything. The songs on the radio station made her sad, She tried to contact him again, He replied. She asked him to play happy songs again, He said He cant because He is not happy.
She: why aren't u happy
He: I don't know m just not feeling it
She: There must be something that can make U happy.
He: If I would have known that I would have done that
She didn't liked the way he replied, also his picture on his Facebook profile wasn't good, He looked like some depressed drunkard. She decided not to talk to him any further.

On the other side, He when looked at her picture on Facebook found her beautiful. He also realized that how this girl was the only one who noticed that he was sad. He sent her a friend request on Facebook. The friend request was rejected within 10 minutes, but He wasn't sad now. He dedicated songs to her on his radio, the happy songs.

It took time for her to realize that all the songs are dedicated to her. This was happening to her for the first time when someone was dedicating songs to her. She could not decide to be happy or angry, but deep inside her heart She was happy. She accepted his friend request. They started chatting, needless to say he had changed his Facebook profile picture before sending her friend request again. She liked his new picture, He looked sober and smart.

After chatting for few days they shared their contact numbers but She allowed him only to text. Soon texts turned into calls. She liked him, and He liked her a lot. He realized that She is the type of girl He always wanted. She liked the fact that they both had a lot of similarities like taste of music. He liked the thing that She cares and She liked the thing that He cares. They decided to meet.

It was their first meeting, and they both knew that they like each other. There was only one thing which they both didn't knew yet, that 'Is This Love?'. They met, He realized that She looks more beautiful in real than her pictures. She liked that he was shy. He was nervous so was She, but She was trying to make him comfortable. He was blushing, she was smiling and found that situation funny. After some time they both were not talking, they were just listening to each other, feeling the silence, realizing that its comfortable silence. That they can sit there for hours with each other hands in hands and look at the sun set without even saying a word...

And from here, their story starts...